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The
Draft
and a Godly Affection for Our Daughters
By
Pastor Matt Trewhella
In January of this year, 2003, a bill was introduced both in the U.S.
Senate and the House of Representatives which would re-institute the
military draft. This bill would not only allow the government to draft
our sons however (as bad as that is itself), but it would also allow the
government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.
Recently, I was listening to a Christian radio talk show discussing this
bill. The question laid out to the Christian men was - what do you
think about the government wanting to draft your daughters into the
military for two years? I was appalled and amazed by the responses I
heard. All of the callers except one thought it would be just fine for
the government to take their daughters for two years. A few of the
common responses given for such thinking were - “We live in different
times now” and “The women wanted this equality, so it’s only
fair” and “With all the government does for us, we should be willing
to let them (our daughters) give two years of their life for them.”
As I listened to caller after caller, Christian man after Christian man,
declare how willing they were to give up their daughters to the
government for two years, I realized how far gone we are as a nation.
When Christian men can speak this way about their daughters they have
lost a godly affection for their daughters. When you hear this kind of
perverse talk, American men have forgotten their God-given function as
fathers.
What has made American men this way? Why do they no longer have a godly
affection for their daughters? Why don’t they know how to function as
fathers?
There are two main causes.
Number One: American men no longer have a godly affection for
their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the
way that Americans raise their children causes an unnatural separation
between parent and child.
This is seen from an early age. Many men have their wives return to work
after their maternal leave time expires after giving birth to their
child. So the child is taken away from the parents and goes to daycare.
When the child turns four or five, they are off to the government
school. Again, the child is separated from the parents, and this
continues to adulthood. Most men send their children away from them at
church too. They don’t act as priests in their homes and instruct
their children in the faith, rather they dump them off on the church
with it’s host of kiddy programs to supposedly do the job.
This bill would allow the government to draft our daughters into the
military for two years.
When the child gets older, most men allow their daughters to date. They
send them away with a young man alone, rather than establishing some
form of godly courtship, hence denying their role as protector. Finally,
most men want their daughters out of the house once they turn eighteen.
Most do so by sending their daughters away to the university.
This is how most American men raise their children and rule their homes.
This is how most Christian men raise their children and rule their
homes. My point is that this causes an unnatural separation between
parent and child. Because of the separation which has been occurring
since a young age and throughout the child’s life, it is easy for a
man to say - “With all the government does for us, of course I’m
willing to let them have my daughter for two years.” It’s easy because
he’s already been separated from her all his life!
Number Two: American men no longer have a godly affection for
their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the
State has become father.
Men are to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes. Most
men no longer know or exercise these roles as father because the State
has assumed the role of father. Herbert Schlossberg, in his book Idols
for Destruction, best defines my assertion here. Schlossberg states:
Rulers have ever been tempted to play the role of father to their
people. The father is the symbol not only of authority but also of
provision. “Our Father who art in heaven...Give us this day our daily
bread” (Mt.6:9,11). Looking to the State for sustenance is a cultic
act [an act of worship]; we learn to expect food from parents, and when
we regard the State as the source of physical provision we render to it
the obeisance of idolatry. The crowds who had fed on the multiplied
loaves and fishes were ready to receive Christ as their ruler, not
because of who He was but because of the provision. John Howard Yoder
has rightly interpreted that scene: “The distribution of the bread
moved the crowd to acclaim Jesus as the new Moses, the provider, the
Welfare King whom they had been waiting for.”
This statement by Schlossberg encapsulates what I mean when I say the
State has become father. Men no longer know what it means to be men or
fathers anymore because the State has become father. They’re still
dependent little boys who’ve never grown up. All is taken care of for
them. They’ve never learned what responsibility means because the
State takes care of every desire, whim and need. Men have a duty as
fathers to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes,
The draft is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State has
assumed the role of father.
and the State wants to take that out of men’s hands and assume the
roles of father.
Schlossberg goes on to state:
The paternal State not only feeds its children, but nurtures, educates,
comforts, and disciplines them, providing all they need for their
security. Once we sink to that level, as C.S. Lewis says, there is no
point in telling state officials to mind their own business. “Our
lives are their business.” The paternalism of the State is that
of a bad parent who wants his children dependent on him forever. That is
an evil impulse. The good parent prepares his children for independence,
trains them to make responsible decisions, knows that he harms them by
not helping them to break loose. The paternal State thrives on
dependency. When the dependents free themselves, it loses power. It is,
therefore, parasitic on the very persons whom it turns into parasites.
Thus, the State and its dependents march symbiotically to destruction.
The tyrant Diocletian, Emperor of Rome, in 301 A.D., declared the State
to be “the watchful parents of the whole human race.” The
State wanting to take our daughters away and draft them into the
military is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State believes
it is father, and has assumed the role of father.
When Christian men allow the State to get away with this, they have
abrogated their God-given duty and roles as fathers.
For a more complete address regarding the draft, obtain a cassette or CD
of the sermon entitled
The
Draft
A Right to Resist and a Godly Affection for Our Daughters
By Pastor Matt Trewhella
Just send five dollars to:
Mercy Seat Christian Church
10240 West National Ave. #129
Milwaukee, Wisconsin 53227
(specify whether you want cassette or CD)
Or…
You can listen to the sermon on the internet at
www.mercyseat.net
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